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Talking to Girls

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You're just walking down the street, minding your own business, when all of a sudden,

you see something along the likes of this.

On a totally unrelated note, I've owned 3 cars in my life and my current car is named Natalie Portman. Don't judge me.

Alright, cool. Let's talk to her.
Alright. Let's do it.
I'm gonna start walking towards her now.
Yep. I'm gonna approach.
Why can't I do it? What's wrong with me?

Don't worry. That shit's natural. Normal people are scared shitless when they have to talk to a woman, especially if she's hot and he's sober.

But why?

According to Mystery, one of the most influential Pick-Up Artists in history (basically, he teaches guys how to get chicks), it's evolutionary.
For the vast majority of human existence, we lived in tribes where everyone knew everyone else. If you did something retarded, you couldn't just leave and meet new people. Your neighbors saw you as "that retard" forever and ever and ever because you met X people in your life and that was it.
Any humiliation you may have suffered followed you for life.

That fucking sucks.

So when a girl turned you down, everyone knew about it and you looked like a loser and your reproductive prospects turned to pretty much zero.


Pictured: Not as ridiculous of a situation in 10,000 BC.

So at one point in time, your fear made perfect evolutionary sense.

It doesn't anymore. If one girl turns you down, you walk 3 feet and talk to another girl. No problem. She won't even remember you by this time tomorrow (especially if you live in a somewhat urban area).

So there's no downside to approaching. You fear is a vestigial structure that you squelch. If you approach and it works, great. You can fuck her, or date her, or be her friend, or connect emotionally. Whatever you want.

Good. Let's talk to her now. Can you do it?

If so, congratulations. You are automatically on the top 20%. Go talk to some chicks.

If not, keep reading.

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There are several ways to motivate yourself to do something. I'll list out two.

1. Pleasure
Internal voice: "Hey, if you talk to her, she might be fun. What if she shares the same interests as you? Wouldn't that be fun? Or what if she has a completely different set of values, but she can teach you something? Wouldn't you like to learn something today? Oh, dude. What is she's 'The One'? Go talk to her man. Let's make something awesome today."

2. Pain
Internal voice: "Are you fucking kidding me? You find a person that could make your day and you don't even have the balls to approach her? Fine. Go home. Go home, you pathetic piece of shit. Go home and watch porn and shoot into a tissue, you pussy. That's the closest you're getting to sex with a woman. If you can't approach a woman you want, you don't deserve to live. You are, for all intents and purposes, sterile. Enjoy evolutionary oblivion, fucker."

Different people use different methods. It depends on whether you are motivated by gravitating towards rewards (me) or avoiding pain (Roguewolf). They are both useful, so choose your tool and go with it.

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Ok, so I said hi. Now what?

Be interesting and be fun.

"Well, no shit. But what can I say to be interesting and fun?"

I can't write out a conversation for you. The best way to get good is to try things and use what works. Anything I tell you to say would not be congruent with your personality anyway.

Note which topics work for you and which don't. Cut out the fat, and you'll be a modern Casanova in no time.

May you never take the path of least resistance.
-Jia

Confidence defines the Heavens

Posted in By Rogue Wolf 0 comments

When the Athenians vanquished the Persians at the Battle of Marathon, an incredible upheaval in the course of history had taken place. The polis of Athens and her hoplite armies of 10,000 citizen soldiers had overcome some 100,000 Persian mercenaries. Through this battle, the Greeks reaffirmed the might of their democratic culture, gave a unified Greece under Alexander the Great a reason to wage war against Persia, and allowed early Western culture to not only survive- but flourish.

Some might even say that the action of some ten thousand hoplites can be felt to this day. I, the author to this humble little article might get a question instead: A question regarding the correlations between war, history, and seduction. To that, I will answer that they are all interrelated: it is the matter of confidence that binds them together. Confidence, a type of esprit de corps on the battlefield allows: countries-to reshape the world, armies-to move whole mountains, individuals-to reach the heavens themselves. Without confidence, conviction and belief in oneself, no task be accomplished, and certainly… no type of seduction can be made possible.

Before we can get to the topic at hand, the timeless art of seduction, there is an issue to address, an issue that is deeply hidden in our modern world. With so many distractions, and the morbid associations it comes with, most people would prefer to avoid such an issue. It is mysterious, yet deviously inevitable: death. Why must I bring up such a foul topic? To quite the cult-classic ‘Fight Club’:

"You have to know, not fear, that some day you are going to die. Until you know that and embrace that, you are useless."- Tyler Durden

If one were to take anything from the Iliad, it was despite the fact that mortals do eventually die, existence as we know it, is an arena to prove one’s glory. Perhaps the walls of Troy had crumbled onto dust, Achilles’s remains long become ash, but their stories continue to endure. The fear of death denies the individual to pursuit one’s mission in life to its fullest. One such aspect of the human psyche that supplements the fear of death is the ego itself.

In Freudian psychology the ego acts according to a reality principle. That is, the ego seeks to please the subconscious mind in realistic ways that will bring it long term happiness, rather than to dab into grief. As such, the ego will shield away the unknown. It cannot tolerate uncertainty. This allows the mind to rationalize a loose concept of reality that includes to denial of death. To simply put, the ego creates a reality in one’s mind, which gives them a false sense of control over the unpredictable turmoil of existence.

Thus confidence cannot stem from the ego alone. The ego will always seek ways to mask fears and insecurities. To accept the horrors of the unknown is to agree to the servitude of doubt.  One compares him or herself to others, usually not for objective purposes, but rather to validate one’s existence. Confidence that stems from belief in oneself is necessary to fuel one’s purpose in life. Total and utter conviction in one’s mission does not need external validation, it stems from being in the moment of existence- an act to prove one’s glory for the sake of itself. For example, take the notion of success. People attempt to find happiness in the future. They believe that achieving a certain type of income, or a certain type of career, or to retire at a certain age is to achieve a certain type of success. When they finally find this supposed goal of happiness, they will ultimately find themselves instead too exhausted, had too much time squandered, or have become too old. If the purpose of one’s life is to stroke one’s ego in the vain pursuit of titles and positions, then this type of confidence is indefinitely unsustainable. Instead, confidence must come naturally without the fear of death; it comes from the drive, the tenacity to accomplish a goal, for its own sake, rather than its outcome. Achieving these goals does not make life meaningful. There is no glory in its anticlimactic conclusion. There is however, meaning in the pursuit of the task. There is however, glory in the pursuit of a goal. No Greek will remember how each Spartan died at Thermopylae. Yet every student in the world will study at one point or another, their sacrifice.

"But if I do not strive, then who shall?"- Laozi

One day, you will eventually die. But until then, your existence is good to its last drop. There are things in life that are worthy in pursuing for its own sake. Matters of love are one of them. It is important to have the confidence required, and to have the trust necessary in oneself to pursuit these goals. The confidence that the Greeks gained from defeating the Persians at Marathon not only allowed them to only one day dismantle the Persian Empire, but to preserve early Western civilization which still dominates the world to this very day.

-Rogue Wolf

Hot Chicks

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Hey guys, who wants to fuck a hot chick?

Is your hand up?

Good. Then you are normal.

Guys are very different, but they all love banging hot chicks. To make things more interesting, they can all agree on who's hot and who's not.


Quick! You have 5 seconds! Who would you rather fuck?

Aside: Guys don't really work the same way. Different women see different kinds of guys as "hot". My friend and I watched "Sunshine" and then disagreed on the hottest guy in the film (he said Cillian Murphy and I said Chris Evans). Anyway, back on topic...

Hot chicks are very sought over in our society. Getting one is a sign of status and pride. When you get a hottie, you make damn sure you brag to everyone you have ever met.

...but why? Does it change the fact that you banged her? Does anything you do in the future affect your past at all in way?

If you didn't change anything by bragging, why do you do it?

It's your ego.

Ego has no place in personal growth. It gets in the way of everything. To truly excel in life, you need to conquer that ego of yours.

We will touch more on the topic of the ego later. It is so critical to the improvement of your inner game and self, so we will thoroughly exhaust this topic in the near future.

So, you want to improve your skills with women. You want to connect with them on an emotional level, and partake in intercourse with them. There's nothing wrong with that.

But does it really make a difference if you connect with a "hot" girl or a "cute" girl or an "average" girl? Not really. It's the same emotional connection, and all girls have vaginas (or assholes, if you're into that. I have a friend who does strict anal with girls for reasons I'll never quite understand). Your number one priority is to improve yourself, not to fuck the hottest chicks.

I find that people that only want to fuck the hottest chicks and ignore the rest are slaves to their ego. They want the world to see that they get hot girls and only hot girls. They want the world to look up to them. They want to be validated by society.

Let me tell you this: You are the only person who can dictate how you feel. If someone calls you a retard and a loser, that doesn't make you a retard and a loser. That makes the other guy an asshole for saying it. You are the only one that has power over your own self worth. To give that power to someone else is folly.

Fucking hot girls is awesome, don't get me wrong. But if you genuinely like a cute girl or an average girl over the super hottie (I find that I can connect better emotionally with 7s and 8s than 10s), take the one you like more. No one is judging you. And if they are, fuck them.

What is physical beauty? A transitory trait. In the end it means nothing. There are much bigger things than the physical realm.


"We mortals are but shadows and dust. Shadows and dust, Maximus!"

May you never take the path of least resistance.

-Jia
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